throw a great lingerie party

If you've never gone shopping together in an erotic lingerie store, your partner might be awkward at first. The only rule is to have an open mind. Share with each other what styles you like or don't like. If your mate seems attracted to an outfit you never thought you'd picture yourself in, try it on anyway. Eventually, you'll reach a middle ground between the erotic lingerie you like, what he likes - and you might surprise yourself in the process.

Both of you must remember that should one of you strongly dislike an item, you should be able to respect your partner's preferences and let it go gracefully. The more you talk, the more you'll both unearth fantasies you may have been hesitant to voice before. Once you break the ice and get the conversation flowing, the rest is easy.

No occasion is really necessary to throw a great Hot Sexy Lingerie party. However, an upcoming occasion will give the party a theme and a focus. Bridal showers, birthdays, and many other celebrations lend themselves particularly well to a fantasy lingerie party.

The Place

Although a fantasy lingerie party could be thrown almost anywhere, if you have the funds consider renting a hotel suite. Make it a girls' weekend away, perhaps in the nearest big city.

The Rules

Fantasy lingerie can be expensive. Have each girl buy one costume to bring. Set rules on the purchase to make it into a game, whether you set a dollar limit or a ban on well-known costumes such as nurse uniforms and French Maid costumes.MORE:Hot Sexy Lingerie Sale